War, courage, sacrifice — and a rare opportunity for real love
By Antoine – CQMI International Matchmaking Agency
For CQMI USA News
Let me be very clear from the start.
This article is not for men looking for a one-night stand.
It is not for men chasing fantasies.
And it is definitely not for men who are not ready to take responsibility.
This article is for serious American men who are asking themselves a simple but profound question:
“Is it still possible, in today’s world, to build a real marriage with a woman who values family, loyalty, and long-term commitment?”
The answer is yes.
And today, that answer often comes from Ukraine.
The war changed everything — including how Ukrainian women meet men
Before 2022, meeting a Ukrainian woman usually meant traveling directly to Ukraine.
Today, that reality has changed — but opportunities have not disappeared. They have simply moved.
Because of the war, hundreds of thousands of Ukrainian women are now outside their country:
- in Poland
- in Moldova
- across Europe
- and increasingly on the American continent, including the USA and Canada
I regularly hear American men say:
“But Antoine, how can I meet a Ukrainian woman during a war?”
The truth is: it has never been more possible — if you know how.
Traveling to Poland or Moldova: what really happens on the ground
Let me share a real story.
One of our American clients traveled to Warsaw last year.
He expected chaos, fear, instability.
What he found instead were:
- educated women
- calm, dignified
- focused on rebuilding their lives
- and very clear about what they wanted: a stable partner, not entertainment
In Poland and Moldova, Ukrainian women live temporarily, often with:
- limited financial security
- emotional stress
- family still in Ukraine
👉 This changes priorities. Dramatically.
They are not dating for fun.
They are dating with purpose.
Ukrainian women are already in the Americas — and many Americans don’t realize it
Another misconception I hear constantly:
“Ukrainian women are all in Europe.”
False.
Because of humanitarian programs, work visas, and family sponsorships, many Ukrainian women are now in North America, including:
- the United States
- Canada
- Latin America (with plans to move north)
I have personally introduced American men to Ukrainian women already living in:
- Texas
- Florida
- Illinois
- California
Often quietly.
Often under the radar.
A reality many men must accept: Ukrainian women are making huge sacrifices
This is an uncomfortable truth — but it must be said honestly.
Many Ukrainian women today are making extraordinary efforts to build a future:
- leaving their country
- adapting to a new culture
- learning a new language
- and yes… accepting significant age differences
Why?
Because war forces maturity.
And because stability matters more than appearances.
I remember a woman telling one of our clients:
“I don’t need a perfect man.
I need a reliable man.
Someone who will not disappear when life becomes difficult.”
That sentence says everything.
Let’s be clear: these women are not looking for casual relationships
At CQMI, we are brutally honest with our clients.
👉 Ukrainian women we work with are not interested in one-night stands.
👉 They are not interested in endless chatting.
👉 They are not interested in men who are “not sure.”
They are looking for:
- marriage
- family
- a life partner
- emotional and moral security
If you are not serious, please don’t waste their time — or ours.
CQMI’s “secret sauce”: why our system works
Now let me explain something very important.
Our success is not luck.
It is structure.
At CQMI, we offer a one-month subscription that costs €250, which is approximately $270 USD.
This is not random dating.
This program gives you:
- 10 real contacts
- with women who have already expressed interest
- in building a serious relationship
- with an American man
No fake profiles.
No endless messaging.
No illusions.
This is our secret sauce:
👉 quality over quantity.
And it works — because commitment filters commitment.
An anecdote that changed one client’s mindset
An American client once told me:
“Antoine, this is the first time I feel that women are not shopping — but choosing.”
That’s exactly it.
Ukrainian women today are choosing carefully.
And they expect the same seriousness in return.
If you want to learn more
You can explore more articles on our US blog:
We also recommend reading external perspectives on Ukrainian displacement and resilience:
- UNHCR – Ukraine Situation
https://www.unhcr.org/ukraine-emergency.html - International Organization for Migration (IOM)
https://www.iom.int/ukraine
Final words — from experience, not theory
I’ve been doing this for many years.
I have seen:
- failed marriages
- unrealistic expectations
- men chasing fantasies
But I have also seen:
- strong couples
- grateful women
- stable marriages built during the worst times
If there is one thing war teaches, it is this:
Love is not about comfort.
Love is about choosing each other — even when the world is unstable.
If you are a serious American man looking for a wife — not a distraction —
then Ukrainian women deserve your respect, your honesty, and your commitment.
If not… please abstain.
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